How Severn Runners Get Connected

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We asked some Severn Runners how they got connected in our church community through Connect Groups. We thought their answers would encourage you to get connected if you aren't already.

Why did you join a Connect Group at Severn Run? 

I joined to be connected with parents who also have young kids and when the pastor said we should all be connected, I wanted to follow his leadership advice so I found a group. I'm so thankful I did.

What are some of the benefits of being in a Connect Group?

Being around families who also are at a similar life stage of having young kiddos has been very valuable to me. We can share our trials, celebrate our successes and do the journey of life together supporting each other.  I also learn more and do studies I would probably not take the initiative to do on my own, so it has been great exposure to studies out there and learning new things about God's word and learning how to apply it to my life in new and different ways. My son looks forward to going every Thursday night and playing with his friends, so it is a benefit to our whole family. 

How did you decide which Connect Group to join?

I went to one of the find a Connect Group events and met some of the folks in each group. I found a group I enjoyed talking to and decided to try visiting. I also was specifically looking for a group with childcare and really like that not only was childcare provided, but also it was on the church campus where my son was used to playing.

Do you lead a Connect Group? Why did you decide to lead?

I lead Families with Special Needs. Many times even day to day struggles are made even larger when dealing with a family member that has special needs. Our group is a safe place to share parenting questions and dilemmas as we support and encourage each other with scripture and prayer.


 

If you are feeling God's leading to get connected with Severn Run, now is the perfect time!

Simply go to http://severnrun.com/connectgroups/ and search our Connect Groups based on life phase, interests or locations.

You'll quickly find a great group of people with whom you can grow in faith.

#MyStory - How I Realized I Need a Connect Group

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Two years, three months, and 28 days ago I became a Marylander--or at least I moved to Maryland. I had gotten a job, rented a townhouse, put all my belongings on a moving truck, got in my car, and drove 1,121 miles to my new residence.

After living in the same state my entire life, I wanted to make a change. I needed to make a change. It was a good thing. In doing so however, I not only left Minnesota behind, I left behind something very important...connections. Connections with church, co-workers, family members, places, and friends.

I was thinking all those could be replaced and new connections could be made. But as an introvert it was more of a challenge than I ever imagined. Of all those left behind connections, friends have been the scarcest commodity here in Maryland. It’s not because I haven’t meet people. I have shaken hands and discussed the weather with numerous people. Acquaintances seem easy, a real and meaningful friendship--not easy at all.

I left a large, contemporary church where I’d attended 20 years. I had joined numerous small groups over the years that lead to several amazing friendships. Through the studies, I learned so much from Beth Moore, Ray Vander Laan, R. C. Sproul and other wonderful Bible teachers. 

So the solution to my emptiness seemed so obvious - I needed to find a church and get connected. I found the church and yet I resisted a connect group.

Thoughts ran through my head again and again...

  • What if they don’t like me?
  • What if I don't like them?
  • I’m divorced...will I be judged?
  • Share my deep dark secrets? No way. 
  • Will I know enough about the Bible?
  • I just don't have the time. 

Over time, through the noise, I begin to hear another small voice...

  • What if I am missing out on new great friendships?
  • Maybe I have something to share that could help someone else!
  • So I divorced, I am still a valued child of God.
  • There's so much more I can learn from studies and other people.
  • We all make time for what's important. 

This fall I am going to do it!

I am going to step out, take a deep breath, and find a connect group.

Am I excited? Yes.

Am I nervous? Absolutely!

But, I am going to do it.  

How about you?

Will you consider joining me in finding a connect group this fall?

We will both be happy we did. 

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